MEN has a woman ever made you feel too big

[Hammer74]

have you ever found yourself too "big" or too "small" for the woman that you were with at the time? If so, how did you handle the situation, did you continue to try to ease in or did you just give up?

 

What if you were too "small" for the woman how would you handle that situation? I am sure that the ladies will chime in with SIZE DOESN'T MATTER, but you never see them checking out anyone with a small package. ..lol

 

This is just one of the many things that I hear women talking about and I would like to know what the other guys think about it.

 

Women aren't there exercises that women can do to make it tighter as well?

[Tiffany978]

I'm a woman, but I've got to chime in.

 

My ds's sperm donor was itty bitty, and it seems my ds has gotten that trait (even little brother is bigger than him already). I worry about what it will do to him because men are all about their penises - it's like who they are.

[Hammer74]

I'm a woman, but I've got to chime in.

 

My ds's sperm donor was itty bitty, and it seems my ds has gotten that trait (even little brother is bigger than him already).  I worry about what it will do to him because men are all about their penises - it's like who they are.

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Good luck to you and him.

 

Honestly no matter how good he feels about himself, all it would take is one woman to say "ummm,,, where's the rest of it" for him to become a complete basket case.

 

Unfortunately we have been taught to be concerned about our size and that consumes us. So if we end up with a woman that we don't particularly fit too well, we start to question things.

[Neen]

What cracks me up about this is that men only worry about the size of ONE thing on their bodies, while women worry about the size of EVERYTHING on their bodies.

 

It's hardly fair, IMHO.

 

The exercises you're referring to are called Kegel exercises.

[Fallon]

I'm just here to watch where this one goes

[Tiffany978]

What cracks me up about this is that men only worry about the size of ONE thing on their bodies, while women worry about the size of EVERYTHING on their bodies.

 

It's hardly fair, IMHO.

 

The exercises you're referring to are called Kegel exercises.

 

LOL - ain't that the truth! Still makes me worry about my little guy because I know how guys are. Not something you can easily bring up with the pediatrician though.

[Hammer74]

I'm just here to watch where this one goes 

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I have a funny feeling that this is going to be "BIG"

[Hammer74]

What cracks me up about this is that men only worry about the size of ONE thing on their bodies, while women worry about the size of EVERYTHING on their bodies.

 

It's hardly fair, IMHO.

 

The exercises you're referring to are called Kegel exercises.

 

LOL - ain't that the truth! Still makes me worry about my little guy because I know how guys are. Not something you can easily bring up with the pediatrician though.

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Why not, it can either be addressed now or he addresses it later and ends up really depressed because of it. Don't forget that doctors have heard it all and this would probably not be the first time that he/she was asked that question.

[Tiffany978]

Why not, it can either be addressed now or he addresses it later and ends up really depressed because of it. Don't forget that doctors have heard it all and this would probably not be the first time that he/she was asked that question.

 

What would they do about it though? I feel silly even worrying about something like that, but he's 5 next month, and barely an inch. I hoped maybe things would grow more later but I'm not a guy, so I don't know how they work.

[Hammer74]

Why not, it can either be addressed now or he addresses it later and ends up really depressed because of it. Don't forget that doctors have heard it all and this would probably not be the first time that he/she was asked that question.

 

What would they do about it though? I feel silly even worrying about something like that, but he's 5 next month, and barely an inch. I hoped maybe things would grow more later but I'm not a guy, so I don't know how they work.

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I'll let you in on a little secret, , , MOST OF US MEN AREN'T EVEN SURE HOW SOME OF US ARE BIGGER THAN OTHERS.

 

This is just one of those things that could just be genetic. . .who knows

[mason]

I'm just here to watch where this one goes 

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I have a funny feeling that this is going to be "BIG"

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[marcellus]

What cracks me up about this is that men only worry about the size of ONE thing on their bodies, while women worry about the size of EVERYTHING on their bodies.

 

It's hardly fair, IMHO.

 

The exercises you're referring to are called Kegel exercises.

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I don't think men can be humble by posting in this thread.

[ms_lisa]

Well if a woman made you feel bad about yourself, whether your well hung or not..shes a loser.

 

That also goes for any guy that would point out faults in their girlfriend/wife

 

 

I think that people care way less than you think they do. Anyhow most woman are not even wired that way, as in to get satisfaction from just that

 

 

 

Why am I here?

[Hammer74]

I would just like to know if there are any women out there that have told a man "NO" because he was TOO big or even TOO small?

[marcellus]

Well if a woman made you feel bad about yourself, whether your well hung or not..shes a loser.

 

That also goes for any guy that would point out faults in their girlfriend/wife

 

 

I think that people care way less than you think they do. Anyhow most woman are not even wired that way, as in to get satisfaction from just that 

 

 

 

Why am I here? 

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A man's inner beauty and what the girlfriend/wife thinks of them does not do away with his subconscious telling him he needs to buy a Ford F350 Power Stroke and get it lifted with 36" tires.

[Fallon]

My now ex-wife made comments to me after an ugly breakup. Did they impact my self-image or what I thought about myself? Perhaps at first, but long term, no. Did they seriously change the way I felt/thought about her? Yes. Same person I've referred to in a previous thread as a "moron" if anyone read it, she's a real piece of work. Needless to say her opinion means little, especially when there were never any problems before hand. She tried to make herself feel better about being taken advantage of by a guy at her work, her own insecurities, and ruining what was a good thing, that's not my problem. My only regret was not seeing what type of person she was sooner. Don't let comments from others affect your life too greatly. Especially the one's that are obviously said to provoke a certain reaction from you.

[psp]

A Great line was once touted by my DH. He says, hey, it satisfies ME!!

 

He does just fine by me, too, so don't sweat the small stuff (no pun intended).

[ms_lisa]

Well if a woman made you feel bad about yourself, whether your well hung or not..shes a loser.

 

That also goes for any guy that would point out faults in their girlfriend/wife

 

 

I think that people care way less than you think they do. Anyhow most woman are not even wired that way, as in to get satisfaction from just that 

 

 

 

Why am I here? 

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A man's inner beauty and what the girlfriend/wife thinks of them does not do away with his subconscious telling him he needs to buy a Ford F350 Power Stroke and get it lifted with 36" tires.

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Yeah, and a womans inner beauty and what the boyfriend/husband thinks of her does not do away with her subconscious telling her she needs to buy a Ford F350 Power Sroker and get it lifted with 36" tires..

 

[Fallon]

Yeah, and a womans inner beauty and what the boyfriend/husband thinks of her does not do away with her subconscious telling her she needs to buy a Ford F350 Power Sroker and get it lifted with 36" tires..

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My kinda girl!

[ms_lisa]

Yeah, and a womans inner beauty and what the boyfriend/husband thinks of her does not do away with her subconscious telling her she needs to buy a Ford F350 Power Sroker and get it lifted with 36" tires..

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My kinda girl!

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Thanks but I only have a F250 But its big enough for me

 

Okay..I gotta get out of this thread

[deluxmary2000]

I would just like to know if there are any women out there that have told a man "NO" because he was TOO big or even TOO small?

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Ummm... I loathe to admit this, but I broke up with a guy once b/c he was too small. But in my defense (before you all jump all over me), he was REALLY small I didn't tell him why, though, because I didn't want to hurt his self image. I believe I actually gave him the "it's not you, it's me" speech.

[deluxmary2000]

Oooh.. I have an idea. Who wants to take bets on how long it takes for this thread to get locked for "inappropriate content". I give it until 4:22 EST

[Snglmom]

I would just like to know if there are any women out there that have told a man "NO" because he was TOO big or even TOO small?

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Ummmmm insert pic here of me looking very very embarrased but yes I have said "no" because of your reasons above........NOT because it was too small but but becausee it was too big......I am a fairly small woman and know my capabilities and this guy would have torn me to shreds.....not worth it.

 

The other side of that coin is that I dated a guy many years ago who only have oral sex because he was so insecure about his size......which, in my opinon was just fine but someone(s) had totally destroyed his confidence.....sad sad sad, very nice guy, funny, sweet, generous but gads that lack of confidence in the bedroom will destroy a relationship.

 

All that being said I truly think that it is indeed the "confidence" that a man has that makes it or breaks it..

[Pam]

I would just like to know if there are any women out there that have told a man "NO" because he was TOO big or even TOO small?

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Ummm... I loathe to admit this, but I broke up with a guy once b/c he was too small. But in my defense (before you all jump all over me), he was REALLY small I didn't tell him why, though, because I didn't want to hurt his self image. I believe I actually gave him the "it's not you, it's me" speech.

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ditto - i knew he was sensitive about it because he kept spouting statistics trying to prove he was "average". he wasn't.

 

the fact that he couldn't make it over 90 seconds added to it, one or the other i would probably have been able to stay and work with things but both, combined with me being told it was my fault he couldn't go more than 90 seconds ... well, he was history.

 

 

BTW... yes I posted and yes I also predict that there are some posters who won't be able to control themselves and will get the topic locked.

 

Course you (generic you) could take that as a challenge and do your damnedest to keep the thread open

[idtheftvictim]

I have only had problems getting it in, because it is BIG....or so all my G/F's tell me, and even my now Wife admits that I am BIG....some friends have seen mine...(don't ask) and now everyone calls me "black from the waist down"....if ya get my drift...I am not trying to brag, but it is true...I sware!

 

Anywho, I just get a little more "lube" on it and on her...and go SLOWLY....and it always ends up working out for the both of us....