How to proceed?

[giraffy]

I mean. Surely you can see, SV, how adding MORE kids to this life is a bad idea. Right?

 

 

eta: i couldn't even keep a straight face for this. SV, you need a whiteboard or something next to your keyboard to keep things straight.

Edited April 3, 2013 by giraffy

[sillyviolet]

Umm, is it really any of your business if I choose to have more kids or do not?

[NeverQuietHere]

Giraffy, like a tally-em-up card or a cliff notes version for each public forum? Is anyone around here handy enough with programs to come up with something or a program for this?

 

Dear Lord, I wish I didn't have to go teach Religion tonight. I could really use a glass of wine to sit with while I comprehend/take all of this in.

 

 

 

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[VibrantEcho]

I mean. Surely you can see, SV, how adding MORE kids to this life is a bad idea. Right?

 

 

eta: i couldn't even keep a straight face for this. SV, you need a whiteboard or something next to your keyboard to keep things straight.

http://m.ikea.com/us/en/?offlineCache=15798

 

It's a desk AND a whiteboard!

 

(I kind of want it, actually.)

Edited April 3, 2013 by VibrantEcho

[Fataliya]

So yeah.

 

Assuming we believe all the Geronimo you post (here's a hint: we don't.):

 

Your life is what a Springer/Maury collaboration could only HOPE to be.

 

Dad/Grandpa play pedobear and hide the sausage with your sons.

 

You move AWAY from these alleged kids, even though you think they're in danger.

 

You've allegedly been raped, evicted, no not evicted. Dating some random jewels, nope, not dating that jewels, no wait, now married to GrandpaHubby (going off of your various jaunts on other boards, ebay, blah blah).

 

Post one place you're pregant, but deny it here....and can't even remember the important medical condition you allegedly had/have.

 

Selling rings and wedding dresses on fleabay.

 

Post some "plus size and pregnant" crap somewhere, but still deny it.

 

I will say what every person who reads your fingertip diarrhea has probably wanted to say since day one:

 

You are *Admin removes vulgarity*ing crazy. NOBODY believes your stories. You can't even keep them straight yodamnself. You have a serious mental problem, and you need psychiatric help, and possibly medication. These aren't white lies. They have taken over your life, and it's pathetic.

 

Again, nobody believes you. We never have, and we never will. What pisses me off is, you are disrespecting those people who HAVE been victims of child abuse and sexual assault. For that, I despise you. Again, I don't believe one bit of what you say. But you lemonade me off.

 

You have no business being around kids. Your's, OR anyone else's. you are sick, you are toxic, and you disgust me. If those children exist, I pray that they are kept FAR away from you, lest you poison their lives like you've poisoned your own.

 

Instead of posting lies and crap here, get some help, because you need it.

 

Again, NOBODY believes you.

 

Now stop your chocolate, before you give GrandpaHubby a heart attack. I also hope that little girl in that picture is kept from you. You are a danger to all children. I hope you never get that job working with children (you know, the one post about on other websites.)

[Islandgal]

Ode of Creditboards GDFBI - Neither Google or Google cache ever lies..

[belleama]

Hey what are YOU talking about Fataliya? I believe ALL of this nonsense, I think...

 

 

 

 

 

Well it sounded good in my head but I just can't

Edited April 3, 2013 by belleama

[VibrantEcho]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/M%C3%BCnchausen_by_Internet

 

[sillyviolet]

If you don't believe me then why do you reply. You seriously need a life for essentially cyber stalking me like that. What a loser!

[Fataliya]

If you don't believe me then why do you reply. You seriously need a life for essentially cyber stalking me like that. What a loser!

One Google search does not a stalker make. You have left a healthy trail for all to see. The fact remains, you are a compulsive liar. I don't know if you need attention, or what, but yes, you need help.

 

I may be a loser, but at least I'm not a compulsive liar who is setting her alleged children up for future failure. There is help available. But to get help, you have to first admit to yourself that you have a problem and need help.

 

There's no shame in needing help. There should be shame in what you are doing, however.

 

I also notice that since you claim I'm stalking you, you essentially admit that I'm right. Which I already knew.

[sillyviolet]

Vibrantecho, I wish the stuff was made up but it's not

[sillyviolet]

Umm I post on message boards, mostly this one because I thought people were helpful here. I am not admitting to anything because I'm not a compulsive liar. Believe what you will, but I know the truth and can simply wish the stuff I have posted was a lie

[NeverQuietHere]

What you post on a public forum CAN be used against you in many ways. Just remember that. I am NOT saying that in any way shape or form to be threatening. But if us Losers can find so much out from Google, I wonder who else has you nailed... and I don't mean sexually.

 

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Edited April 4, 2013 by NeverQuietHere

[gemsnewday]

SV:

 

I'm confused. You posted originally that your ex texted he was taking a job in another area and didn't want the boys back. You later stated that his mom said he just wanted a break. WTH is she doing in the middle of this anyway. It is not very clear why you would be entertaining conversation with her at this juncture. This issue is between you, your ex, and the court. Ma-in-law needs to BTFO. Is she one of those that likes to play both of you against one another?

 

Any way you shake it, you just can't decide to "take a break" from having custody of children.

 

Were you able to get some of the children's clothing and toys, since he dumped them on your lap? I hope so. They would deserve to have their personal belongings. And what about school? Can't he just walk in and check them out and leave with them?

 

Did you get the emergency custody order since he apparently abandoned them to you during a court ordered visit? I know you said they don't do court until Thursday (which is weird), but one would think the court would take emergency steps in the case of abandonment by the custodial parent. So what has happened so far?

[cotterpin]

[giraffy]

Sooo. Yeah. That covers it.

[drew3918]

Wowwwwww this is like day time TV drama I'm really starting to like this SV chick

[Marilie]

Cotter, scoot over and hand me some popcorn.

[NeverQuietHere]

 

 

 

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[TxQuiltGirl]

You know, what is really concerning here is this - whether or not this is real or only real in someone's head, whether or not anyone believes the mess this woman's life seems to be ... there are CHILDREN involved here. CHILDREN who cannot do anything to shield, protect or otherwise get away from the crazy, real or implied, that SV's life seems to be. To me, that is absolutely NOT cool, and it begs the question ... WHY?? Why in the world would anyone want to put children through the nightmare that is posted on the internet for all the world to see? Why would anyone want to use a place like CB's General Forum to air all of this when it's so clear they need a counselor, a doctor ... SOMEONE who can actually help them put their lives in order. I mean, according to you, their father ABANDONED them! OMG ... how horrible that must be to two little boys.

 

I didn't do any cyberstalking, but I did see what brought up the question of whether or not there is a baby SV on the way. There is no doubt in my mind that it came from the same SV that posts here ... and again, I have to ask WHY ... why bring another child into a mess of a life, or why lie about being pregnant? Based on what I saw on another website, there are only two options here ... and no other. It seriously breaks my heart to think that there are children out there who are having to deal with this sort of thing ... these issues ... that no child should ever have to endure. And the idea that there may be another one on the way?? Good Lord, that just kills me to think about it.

 

So ... I'll close with this message to SV ... if you are indeed pregnant, you're right, it's no one's business. So don't post it where others can see/find it. But if you are ... seek some professional help. Go see a therapist who can help you work through all the issues you seem to have. And if you aren't pregnant, then I beg you to stop the insanity. It's so uncool and completely unfair to your children if it's a charade, even if it is only on the internet. If folks here can find information so easily about you, then the parents of your children's playmates can too. And parents gossip, and kids overhear those things. And kids can be so cruel, which means that they may use those things that their parents find on the internet to taunt your children and make their lives miserable. Even if you aren't willing to stop for your own sake, please consider stopping for the sake of your children.

 

Get some help, for you and the kids. You all need it so much, it's unbelievable.

[Tigz]

What Quilty said. That sums everything up nicely.

 

BTW, nice to see you lady! Wish you would visit here more often, we miss you.

[NeverQuietHere]

"It's so uncool and completely unfair to your children if it's a charade, even if it is only on the internet. If folks here can find information so easily about you, then the parents of your children's playmates can too. And parents gossip, and kids overhear those things. And kids can be so cruel, which means that they may use those things that their parents find on the internet to taunt your children and make their lives miserable. Even if you aren't willing to stop for your own sake, please consider stopping for the sake of your children."-Quilty

 

This was my point about it being used against SV, among other ways. You just put it better.

 

First call shoulda been to the attorney. Second call to the therapist FOR THE KIDS

and SV. Abandonment is NO JOKE. But dont come back on here saying you can't find a therapist or none of them work on Thursdays or Fridays or some BS. Imma bought ready to call Dr. Phil or Maury...just trying to decide which one.

 

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[sillyviolet]

I was looking for advice and opinions on whether the text would be sufficient. I wasn't looking for cyberstalking and criticism. In the past, I have really appreciated the help and advice I got from some folks on this board. To those people, thank you.

[sillyviolet]

Oh, you can all breath a little easier. My OBGYN recently informed me it is highly unlikely I will ever conceive again due to various female issues I have been having. Miracles can occur, but I doubt it will happen. So I won't bring anymore horrendous beings, which is what you all seem to think my children are, into the world. I love my children and want what's best for them.

[sillyviolet]

Also, I did a search on google for my username and did not see the link that was posted come up. So, does the cyberstalking apply? If so, please get a life.