Remember Nursing School has alot to do with building your clinical skill set.
You will be required to finish a prescribed amount of hours in a hospital and many hospitals use this as an opportunity to lure you into employment. Your current job will be your last priority in nursing school, some schools have made guidelines strongly discouraging students from working during school. I knew one person who left a 100k job once the community college nursing program totally consumed his schedule, sadly enough he left his job and then failed out of the program.
You must fully shift into nursing school from the begining. The OP needs to realize an APN program is nothing like your bachelors degree program. Its an all or nothing situation. You will have to give up everything in your schedule to survive. On the other hand I have known some really smart students who have survived the program and a pregnancy, so I would not fully put it past a person to have other obligations, but I would nodd my head at them and applaud them at graduation. I would just advise you to plan very carefully before you begin.
I would also recommend that you seek out a student who is a few classes away from the end of the program. Find out when the class meets and hang out in the hallway. Put yourself where they are and you will have a chance to ask a few questions. The information they can provide can save you from making the mistakes that cost so many people their nursing career. Remember every encounter you have with a nursing teachers and administrators is a test of your social, cognitive and physical skills. Your questions about the program must be super quick and to the point. There is such thing as a stupid question in a nursing program. Plan your face time with nursing staff as if you were interviewing for a job. I would recommend avoiding the teachers for small questions. Use the conselers or their marketing person at first, thats what they are there for, however you will at some point need the nursing staff, hopefully you need them to sign applications for funding, so map out what you need from them and then go and get it.
I might have gotten a little off topic, but nursing school funding is very specific to the state you live in. I live in California. I would recommend the OP add a location to your post.
There are alot of different programs in California to pay nursing students.
http://www.oshpd.ca.gov/HPEF/ADN.htmlI would start by seeing what students at your school say about surviving the financial aspect of school. All nursing students struggle, plan for it.