Militaryonesource.com is decent, but it's more like a directory (from what I've seen and experienced). You call up with an issue, they give you a # to call or a contact of a company or person that can help you with your issue. Kind of like a switchboard...
You are incorrect. As mentioned upthread, BAS is paid for the SERVICEMEMBERS meals. When on a ship, or deployed overseas, the service member has messing available (galley on the ship, etc...) Marital status is not considered.
I'm staring at my LES right now, I'm deployed and get BAS (Subsistence allowance). I'm married, and anyone over here that is married is also getting BAS. I know my Soldiers are for sure. When I deployed the 1st time I also got it.
I had my ID stolen when I was stationed in Germany. Someone used my Identity to open up phone accounts and use false addresses with Verizon and another company in California. I had proof I was in Europe and there was no possible way it could have been me. I filed disputes, police reports, hounded the credit agencies...all to no avail. The collection agencies didn't care, all they wanted was their money. I guess in their case, everyone has a story...lol
This was about 10 years ago. It took a few years to get it resolved, I finally looked up the Verizon website in Cali and starting guessing what the email addresses were for the people listed as senior management. I got an email back from a Senior VP and they finally cleared it up. Still took another year or so for my credit to start recovering. It was a major hassle.
I now use the USAA credit monitoring services for like $5 a month.