I hope someone can really give an insight on ur situation. They're probably doing that cos they know you are working...
Salliemae can be very imposible sometimes...all my communication with them as been online until I had to call to postpone payment..
I started my repayment 2008....was able to pay for 11months(paying minimum) until now..
I have a private($3000) & gov loan with them... I asked for a deferment on both loan.They said they only do forebearance for private loan with a $50 fee to process for 3months & my government can defer for 6months with no fee. I wasn't sent any papers to sign..i just called them up..paid the $50 over the phone & it was process that same day with a confirmation #.
3weeks later I got an-e-mail asking me to login to my account & check new update...there I found out that all my loans will be due in 3months.

.probably them found out I'm back to work
I plan going back to school in fall2009(graduate school) & I'll ask the school to just call SM for a deferment on all loan tilll i graduate.
you are allowed ""Forbearance which lets you suspend or reduce your student loan payments under certain circumstances and for specified periods of up to one year at a time.""quote from their website. you are going to have to fight them for not processing your forebearance papers you sent to them & I hope you read through those fine-prints before signing & sending it back to them....