I couldn't say much she was talking to an attorney & I wasn't lying. The friend was my mom, she was alive at that time. I wanted to respect her & my privacy, and didn't really want to go into detail about my disability at that time. I already talk to a my cardiologist about my health. He said try an apartment before going to nursing home. He thinks I can handle it. Yes, I am talking care of myself, my health, doing laundry, driving, getting groceries & bathing, I have a friend that helping manage money & helping me find lawyers as well. I got a lawyer appointment in October. As I said in another thread, I think I should of paid the house but that is to late now.
As I said she was actually talking to an attorney but unfortunately her health got worse & she was able to get the mortgage reduced. The attorney was actually thinking of taking the case, I can't find that attorneys number. She worse then me on record keeping.
In that one thread, I am really surprised I got a response from a moderator because when I first came here. Creditboards were helping people delay and challenging foreclosures.
If its legal that fine, They can go ahead a foreclose on it. If its illegal, then they owe the estate a lot of money that she paid into & the county can tale the house. Either way, I am still going to an apartment.
I know, I should just forget about the house. I want honor my moms wishes that is the main reason I am doing this, the other reason was to delay the foreclose so I could stay here longer but that not an issue now (At least I hope). However, if I had the money I would still do it but have the lawyer do all the work. Rich & upper middle income people are lucky-they can pay to challenge stuff and lose and still have money. If the lawyer says it is not worth it, then I would drop in a heartbeat (Medical humor) & I will forgot about it.
No, I am not trying the scam the mortgage company. Like I said above, if it is illegal the estate owed money, otherwise its not--very simple.
I may drop it anyway for my health. I am the type that needs to keep busy & my mind occupied so I deal with my moms death. Me talking about my mom on this & other forums helps me. Sometimes my bark is worse then my bite. Yes, I am seeing another doctor about my moms death as well. Once, I move to this other town, I will be looking for help there as well, My bite is worse in email & in forums.
I may not post for awhile if the attorney goes ahead with the case.
Edited by groze, 24 September 2017 - 12:39 AM.