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Cindy had just discovered that Jerry had a secret credit card account that he’d been using for buying things that he didn’t want Cindy to know about.


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They were already in marriage counseling before the bill was discovered.

 

This would have been a much more interesting story if they had listed what the purchases were and how big the balance was.

 

Due to the facts that are conspicuously absent, I am going to assume that Cindy is a prying shrew.

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They were already in marriage counseling before the bill was discovered.

 

This would have been a much more interesting story if they had listed what the purchases were and how big the balance was.

 

Due to the facts that are conspicuously absent, I am going to assume that Cindy is a prying shrew.

 

I was sympathetic towards Cindy until I read down further. Run Jerry, Run. Each day you wait is one less day in the rest of your life.

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He had the secret account so he could buy stuff without being questioned.

 

This is what happens when one person becomes overly controlling with the finances, treating their significant other like a child.

 

Esp if the Significant other works (and maybe even if he/she doesn't) they deserve to be able to spend some $ without being accountable for every penny.

 

 

Yes, some people are out of control with spending(there is no mention of that here specifically.. just the secret account) - but a person should be able to buy a pack of gum without being questioned.

 

I got out of a marriage 20 years ago because ex was too controlling over ALL of the money.. his/mine/ours.

I am neither a "spender" or a "saver" but I hover somewhere in the middle. He was the only one allowed to "spend".. and everything else was to be "saved".

I, too, had a secret credit card ...

wasn't too secret during the divorce proceedings though. ;-)

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