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On 11/3/2020 at 8:35 AM, hegemony said:

Yesterday I booked my first flight since 2/2020.

 

basic economy was $390 (plus bag restrictions)

economy was $497 (plus bag fee)

first/business was $610.

 

I paid the $610 just to piss off some work jockey who expects to be upgraded on every flight.

 

I've already gotten 3 emails telling me all the wonderful things the airline is doing to keep me from dying on the flight! And they said something about me having to wear a mask.

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3 hours ago, hegemony said:

:lol: of course... and maintaining it has a cost too.

 

I hope there is some DYKWIM giving me side eye when I board wearing crocs, running shorts, and a hoodie with ketchup stains.

I am not a DYKWIM but I would give you side eye on principle alone.

 

:D 

 

 

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5 hours ago, hegemony said:

:lol: of course... and maintaining it has a cost too.

 

I hope there is some DYKWIM giving me side eye when I board wearing crocs, running shorts, and a hoodie with ketchup stains.

Leaving out of LAS, some would wonder why you had dressed up for the flight...I've seen homeless people dressed better than some of what is in the waiting area of the D-gates.

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1 hour ago, TheVig said:

The place that cuts my hair, got new POS equipment. No longer codes as grocery. As far as I'm concerned, the new equipment is a POS.

 

File this one away in my first world problems folder.

That sounds like it was a problem before, but is now fixed.

 

On the topic of haircuts, one of the barbers at my old shop opened a new shop of his own. Great haircuts, now with the added benefit of not having to go downtown to encounter the drunks and bums. 

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1 hour ago, Bad Doctor Frost said:

That sounds like it was a problem before, but is now fixed.

 

On the topic of haircuts, one of the barbers at my old shop opened a new shop of his own. Great haircuts, now with the added benefit of not having to go downtown to encounter the drunks and bums. 

It was a problem that worked to my benefit.

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1 hour ago, StarkRaven$ said:

Triggered. People lashing out over nothing claiming they were triggered.

People do definitely overuse this. But!

 

But I just wanted to say that one of the biggest widow groups that exists is run by a "censored profanity your feelings" dude and threads about being triggered abound, because it happens to widows a lot (and bereaved parents I assume).

 

Especially a young population, many of whom found their partner unexpectedly dead at 40 or 32 or 26, these people ... I mean it's happened to me, not that I told anyone. It's embarrassing, but it is really distressing. The first time it happened to me I was working on an immigration story, and a secondary editor started asking me to call USCIS and ... that did it. USCIS had sent us an approval letter not three weeks earlier, and my husband was then-recently unexpectedly dead. And I got triggered and was on slack and I just said "can you please ask other editor if she's willing to call them?" and secondary apologized and it wasn't a big deal. [ETA I didn't make a big deal out of it but I shook for hours and no one knew and I was embarrassed.]

 

Also stupidly, I got triggered when I voluntarily watched a video about cremation. I didn't expect it, but elements of how detailed it was made me get sick. I'm fine with cremation, it was unexpected.

 

My friends get triggered by passing accidents sometimes if that's how it happened, or by blood if their partner exsanguinated in front of them (mine was thoughtful enough to die elsewhere), or by trees creaking (some suicide widows), or by bangs (other suicide widows), or by hospital ERs (a lot of us). I triggered one of my best friends in life by mentioning a song title which unwittingly reference her partner's cause of death. 

 

I still can't hear one Pink Floyd song which comes on in casual dining places more than I ever imagined without having to go outside for the duration. I just can't.

 

It's like your dumb stupid body does the panic attack shuffle before your normal person brain can even get a word in. 

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1 hour ago, smartlypretty said:

People do definitely overuse this. But!

 

But I just wanted to say that one of the biggest widow groups that exists is run by a "censored profanity your feelings" dude and threads about being triggered abound, because it happens to widows a lot (and bereaved parents I assume).

 

Especially a young population, many of whom found their partner unexpectedly dead at 40 or 32 or 26, these people ... I mean it's happened to me, not that I told anyone. It's embarrassing, but it is really distressing. The first time it happened to me I was working on an immigration story, and a secondary editor started asking me to call USCIS and ... that did it. USCIS had sent us an approval letter not three weeks earlier, and my husband was then-recently unexpectedly dead. And I got triggered and was on slack and I just said "can you please ask other editor if she's willing to call them?" and secondary apologized and it wasn't a big deal. [ETA I didn't make a big deal out of it but I shook for hours and no one knew and I was embarrassed.]

 

Also stupidly, I got triggered when I voluntarily watched a video about cremation. I didn't expect it, but elements of how detailed it was made me get sick. I'm fine with cremation, it was unexpected.

 

My friends get triggered by passing accidents sometimes if that's how it happened, or by blood if their partner exsanguinated in front of them (mine was thoughtful enough to die elsewhere), or by trees creaking (some suicide widows), or by bangs (other suicide widows), or by hospital ERs (a lot of us). I triggered one of my best friends in life by mentioning a song title which unwittingly reference her partner's cause of death. 

 

I still can't hear one Pink Floyd song which comes on in casual dining places more than I ever imagined without having to go outside for the duration. I just can't.

 

It's like your dumb stupid body does the panic attack shuffle before your normal person brain can even get a word in. 

That's perfectly understandable. I remember after my last parent passed on, sometimes I would get teary eyed when I saw an elderly person in public. I was going through the change so the flood gates would overwhelm me. I think this is why I was a good caregiver for the elderly years later. My parents were a lot older than my peer's parents.

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On 11/16/2020 at 1:20 PM, TheVig said:

Triggering and microaggressions. ***

 

*** Every couple of years at work we have to take an online course on various types of harassment. 

Your company needs the Sexual Harassment Panda

 

https://southpark.cc.com/video-clips/mz4eya/south-park-everyone-vs-everyone

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