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  1. Writ of possession for her car or writ of garnishment for her bank account. Either way... she will have it made clear that her behavior is never going to be tolerated again. This is not about the money, it is about the principle and a lesson to be learned ie: whether it is family or outside creditors...short of an economic meltdown, Pay your debts!
  2. We have the receipts, the credit card statement, phone logs etc, we included the interest charges on the original amount to date in the claim. The answer to her claims has been written. It is consice and intelligent and all backable with our paper trail. Thank you for your thoughts!
  3. Do you honestly think that the OP will say that the SD and herself have issues and don't see eye to eye??? Come on. The OP and the biological father will go to court as the plaintiff and state that they made said agreements with the defendent. They will show their evidence. The SD will seal her grave by giving her defense of oral agreements/SOL. Judge will say b.s. you owe them. Enough said. And it's not the first time that you've put the OP down, nor acted like it was her doing nor it wasn't her CC. I've dealt in small claims with an old friend. All you need is that hard proof that you lent the money. The fact that the OP has the SD's VIN/License on her evidence that the OP paid for is good enough for her side. When the judge asks for the defendents side and asked if it was a loan, she brings up SOL's and saying they can't collect...... case closed. That's it. OP's (no blood relation) CC.... remember Oh I am willing to admit that she and I do not see eye to eye. I have been the wicked step mother from day one (why? I still have no idea except that maybe WSD thought I had knocked her off her princess perch) DH and I are going to court as united spouses. We will show our evidence and let the Judge make his determination. We strongly beleive that intergrity, truth and dignity will win.
  4. My feelings about WSD have nothing to do with this, she has issues with me is to be true BUT.. The credit card was our business card, with the business name and my name on it, I signed for the repairs. I am not disputing the charge on our card with the CC company I am disputing a spoiled ungrateful Brats idea of respect for her Father and supporting my DH decision to go forward with this and teach his Daughter to know that having INTEGRITY is a necessity these days. For some of us it is all that is left.
  5. Well, technically, the "last dollar" would be letting this go, and you're not, so you might want to strike that part about giving the last dollar, unless you really meant "lending" the last dollar (seriously, some families make distinctions between the two and some do not - referring to posts by other posters in this thread, and it's common for different families to have different interpretations of the gift/loan distinction.) But if the above-described characterization of lending/lack of request for repayment is really true, then it doesn't set much of a precedent for any of the three adult children that payment is expected. It was also mentioned that this person asserted that her siblings do not pay their debts. So why do you think that a legal demand for payment, more than two years after this particular loan, and this loan being singled out among, apparently, many loans or at least high-dollar-amount loans to three different people, is going to bear fruit either in inter-family relations or in a court of law? I think that because it was paid by credit card by your husband, it's just legally his debt. It seems very simple - he used a credit card, and he signed for the bill years ago. I predict that simply having a record of someone else's license plate and VIN and a bill for service is just not going to sway a judge that your husband is not responsible for the bill. Testimony that she promised, (not in writing) anything that she now denies promising,will not change that outcome. Didnt the OP say several times that the credit card used was her own, not her husbands? The credit card used was our Business credit card in my name. We are both Plaintiffs in this case.
  6. Just thinking out loud here, but along these lines... If the daughter promised to pay "asap (as soon as possible)", and it wasn't possible until later, then wouldn't any due date be that later date when it was possible? The OP has not stated exactly when the daughter came into her windfall, but it could have been August 2009, which would put the claimed SOL at August 2011... if the 2 yr SOL is even correct. I feel like I'm playing 'jailhouse lawyer'. SD windfall was in July of 2009.
  7. Honestly, I'd have fun with that now... she's trying to weasel her way out based on a half-baked understanding of law. Under her idea anybody could make 5 years of mortgage payments then just stop. After all, that mortgage is outside the SOL. I don't have nearly enough, not nearly enough life experience to make a judgment about the wisdom of the suit. But this idea that she'll play some legal technicality to her advantage just grates on me. Exactly...its not the money at all, its her response--disgusting, blah! I am an adult and if I had the nerve to even come up with a smartypants response like that to my parents, a court would not be needed when they are finished with me. Its horrible, and she deserves whatever she gets as a result of her disrespect and usery. She may have a little cash now & not need her parents after10yrs of holding her hand out, but karma has a way of turning things around where she will need them far before they ever need her again. So she should ask herself, is it worth it, not the OP. I hope they get their judgement and things also turn around for hubby with finding a job. +1,000,000
  8. Verbatim from her answer. Q: I ask the court to make the following order.. A: Dismiss the case due to the fact that it is past the 2 year statute of limitations. The incident was 10/31/2007 and papers where not filed until 11/13/2009 Q: I ask for this order because... A: My car was fixed on 10/31/2007 which was over 2 years ago. Mr XXXXX waited more than 2 years to ask for the money and to sue.
  9. OP, I have no opinion of you. I didn't quote what you asked me ..... something about does my husband get support? To answer your question, he did when we were married. Now I, by my own choice raise our lovely very young children. The children he helped bring into this world. The children he has chose to ignore and send no money to nor have anything to do with since he started living with his girlfriend 2 years ago. I am not putting my situation in your daughters and you and your husbands life. I'm simply saying, maybe the daughter and father should work this out together since you state above........ "I have no relationship with this girl". She stated that she had no relationship with the girl, yet out of her own heart helped her despite not seeing eye to eye. That makes me think that OP is a good person and the daughter is just a hateful little...... Thank you, I like to think my heart is in the right place.
  10. OP, I have no opinion of you. I didn't quote what you asked me ..... something about does my husband get support? To answer your question, he did when we were married. Now I, by my own choice raise our lovely very young children. The children he helped bring into this world. The children he has chose to ignore and send no money to nor have anything to do with since he started living with his girlfriend 2 years ago. Sorry to hear that GotCredit, that is poor form by your ex. Sorry I got a bit defensive. I am not putting my situation in your daughters and you and your husbands life. I'm simply saying, maybe the daughter and father should work this out together since you state above........ "I have no relationship with this girl". I agree with you, they should be able to work this out. He has tried many many times over the past 10 months to do just this but unfortunately she has just decided to thumb her nose at him and he is finally tired of the kids walking all over him.
  11. Thank you Cotterpin....feeling a bit stomped on here by those who will remain nameless. Yes that is her only defense, she admitted on her answer it was owed and yes we do have dates and cell phone records as to the dates he asked to be repaid.
  12. Well, yeah, it seems more than obviously that there's bad blood (I called it immaturity) either coming from the step-relationship or at least not being ameliorated in any way by the step-parent in the equation. But she would not admit it, so it's not even worth asking. (I mean, I wasn't going to. It's a great question but won't get an honest answer.) She said she's "a bit sad" (seems insincere) but then calls the stepdaughter every name in the book. (cow...?) It's possible that she and her husband are of the same mindset, and the daughter is cut from the same cloth as the father. Sorry to say this, but this may be a social class divide. I can't imagine parents in any situation, especially over the amount of $600, being so intent on getting some money out of an adult child, that they'd take it to court. Other posters obviously feel otherwise. While I agree about not bending over backwards to maintain relationships with "toxic people" of any relationship (family or otherwise) my original point was... this is your CHILD. (or the husband's child, maybe more to the point.) I don't find money (especially that quantity) to be worth irrevocably busting up relationships over, but to each his/her own. They have to live with it, not me. I would find some shame, as a parent, in going to such lengths to get money from anyone related to me, particularly a child (even an adult), and the amount makes it that much more ludicrous. My possibly-unpopular opinion only! Millions (most of them not on this board) undoubtedly agree, but whatever... Oh PULEEZE! True I have no relationship with this girl. But I DO have a relationship with her Father. When HE is SAD I am SAD. And WHAT is this rubbish about "Social Class"??
  13. Well again, I know a lot of men who choose to do things because their "new wife" or "girlfriend" (whatever) would make it hell to live with them if they dont. For pete sake, It's $600 - let it go and just don't do it again unless it's a health issue or something life threatening. Well thank you for your imput. I am not the "new wife" we have been married for 10 years! I have not nor would I ever make my DH's life hell. His children are his decision. I butt out as I have not felt it my place to voice my opinion on how he handles his children particularly since they are way grown, but when DH needs my support he gets it. Does yours?

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