QUOTE (gettinstarted08 @ Sep 10 2009, 08:41 PM)

Okay - so I just moved to Barstow California. It was not by choice - but rather my marine husband was transferred here. For those that aren't aware (aside from being the armpit of California) Barstow is the halfway stop on the way to Vegas. It is very touristy (which I find hilarious since it's such a dirty little town). Anyway, at the gas stations, fast food shops, all the places a tourist is likely to visit - I get asked for my id EVERY time i use my card. i have tried to explain to folks the policies, they laugh at me and say they don't care, they have their own policies. There are minimums to use a credit card almost everywhere (or pay a fee), and in some stores you have to pay a fee to use no matter how much (or little) you spend, and 2 stores also charge a fee to use your debit card.
xoxoxo Frustrated in the High Desert!
Welcome to that certain part of California that you never really know about if you're from the East Coast. I faced the same situation a couple years ago when I moved further north in the San Joaquin Valley than you are. I would say it was almost 100% of places asked for ID, minimums, surcharges, etc. At first I used to argue with people, which I came to realize is counterproductive and a waste of time because as you found out they just think what they think, and rarely are you going to convince anyone. Sometimes I would talk to the manager or owner. Most people did not appreciate it, or were resistant to the idea that there were rules they had to follow.
What I started doing is reporting people to Visa and MC, (MC has an on-line form) and with Visa 800-VISA 911 and ask to make and "incident report".
It's a bit of a hassle and the results aren't immediate but I have to say that I haven't run into any of these practices in about a year. I probably made 15-20 reports over the course of a year.