My husband and I have made a lot of mistakes in the past year, and now it's all catching up to us and I think we're going to lose our home...I need help sorting it all out. I am seriously at my wit's end, so if you all could be kind and avoid the "you should have..." statements, I would appreciate it.
At the end of July last year, we both left our jobs. We were miserable and couldn't imagine continuing there, so we decided to work from home as freelance writers. We cashed out our retirement plans to help us get by while we built up our business. I had been working in this capacity on a part-time basis for almost a year.
Anyway, business didn't pick up as much as we thought it would and we didn't chase after it as much as we should have. we spent several months living off our retirement funds, but they dried up in December and we were barely making enough to eat and pay some of the bills...not the mortgage. We have a ridiculously high payment, what with the 80/20 loan. It's an ARM, fixed for 5 years, and we're at the end of year two.
We got the notice in March giving us 3 months before we went into foreclosure. A good friend trained me on doing some web work and gave me a job, but we've been held up by slow clients and I haven't earned enough doing that to pay off what we're behind on, but I'll get SOME of it some time soon. I have two horses I've been trying to sell, but the market is weak and I'm having no luck there yet. My husband has been looking for a job, but no luck. My income is enough that if he had a job, we'd be OK, but he isn't pulling in very much.
So anyway, three months is up and we got a notice of trustee sale today, and it says they will sell our home on July 7th. With no jobs, I can't imagine we'll be able to rent anything. If the horses sell and the web clients pay up, we're saved, but I'm losing hope. Do we have ANY options??
I'm in tears here...please be gentle. I don't even know where to start reading.
