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I'm agreeing with you - what I'm saying is, I've known many parents who have the means to help their child but, for one reason or another, will not. So a 19-year old who has been living on their own for a year, working a full-time job, paying bills, etc., STILL cannot better themselves until they are 23 because up until that point your eligibility for loans, grants, etc. is based on your parents income.
It just does not seem right to me. My parents did help with the 2 1/2 years of college that I had, but I had many friends whose parents did not, and had to drop out because they could not get enough loans/grants to cover tuition, even though they worked full time besides going to classes.
Personally I think that the independant age is set way to high for this day and age.
If a person
really wants to go to school, they will do it. It might mean working your way thru school, going part time but it can be done. I know a girl in this exact situation....her parents want her to work in the family business and she wants to be an artist so they won't help her with school. She went to a local community college to get all of her general education credits out of the way cheap. She works part time at UPS for their tuition money and health insurance. During the summer she works with a childrens art program in the day and UPS at night, saving every penny she can. I know she managed to get about $2000 in scholarships for this year and she has about $4k lined up for next year. She is determined to graduate and she will.