Thanks!

I really need lots of encouragement lol Well... if i am adding the car and mortgage that's:
about $10,000 for the car (new loan) at 8% and
UGH $175,000 for the mortgage at 6.25%
SO much debt.......
I actually don't carry any credit cards with me, other than my bank card, the sad thing is, you don't even need the card nowdays, a lot of places will look it up for you or have you write it down (I've memorized a few of mine lol) my obvious problem is will power

You're right, i need to try the tracking thing again, i will do that the next time i go out and use cash, even though with USAA there is no bank to go to around here
Debbie~
I know it's not easy to look at that list, but you are on the right track. That first step isn't an easy one, but you can regain control of your money.

I would also include the mortgage & car loan as debts, with their interest rates & balances.
I have also tried to send too much to the credit card to later realize I didn't have enough money for gas, so I pulled out the credit card again. To break that cycle you have to stop carrying the credit cards for a while. First I took all of my credit cards out of my wallet & put them in my sock drawer. The extra effort to go get the card was enough to curb some of my impulse spending. Then I started using CASH to buy food & gas for the week. The feeling of handing away cash feels different from swiping the credit card & that helped me reduce my spending further.
If you can't figure out where all of your money is going, then carry around a sheet of paper & write down every single expense for a month. And I mean EVERYTHING. After a month, total it up and you will be able to tweak your budget to better match your spending habits.
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