QUOTE(54regcab @ Aug 16 2006, 06:39 AM)

I don't see anybody getting hurt by taking on a mortgage 3X instead of 4x

BTW is your $4X based on Take home or Gross?
With savings and everything what do you live on?
That's a budget I'd like to see

If I'd gone by the rule 3X, I would have been hurt, because I'd still be renting. There was nothing in my area cheaper than my house unless it's in a bad neighborhood. I already have a 45 minute drive to work to be as affordable as I am. Instead, by buying a house at a greater multiple I now have $100K of equity in the house alone between appreciation and mortgage pay-down (oh, and the mortgage was a 100% finance, so I had no equity when I closed 3 years ago).
Based on gross salary. $50K gross salary, $200K mortgage.
My budget is pretty simple. I don't need much.
$40/week groceries
$300/month gas/oil changes/set aside for insurance
$40/month entertainment and eating out
$200/month horse board
$30/month cats & dog
$30/month electric (actually was under $10 last month, usually under $20, but I budget $30)
$100/month propane (average, obviously higher winter, summer I haven't spent anything in 4 months, so I set it aside during the summer in case I need it to get through the winter)
$30/month phone
$1500/month mortgage
There might be a couple minor items missing, I'd have to check Quicken when I get home.
And yes, I do stick to that budget and usually am under at the end of the month.
Everything else goes into savings/investments.