wife_in_ohio

Ok , cool thanks. Are there any reprocessing to me doing this?

I don't mean to not sign, I mean to waive my rights.

So, I should or should not sign away my rights? If I get what you are saying, due to Ohio laws, until/unless we divorce/he dies, only then is the asset considered mine, and only then would it be something someone can put a lien on.

When my husband and i met, i was very upfront about my inability to control myself financially. We agreed that he would always control the money. I have NO desire to have ANY control over our money. We have been together 10 years and married for 8. While i know i should not say never, but at this moment, i see no reason for our marriage to end. Our system mostly works for us. That being said. we are refinancing our house which we bought BEFORE we were married (in his name). I was unaware of the "dowery" rights in ohio, and when we went to the bank to refinance, the banker said i had to be at closing because i had to sign dowery rights. I don't want them. I want NO way to ever screw up my husbands credit. He has perfect credit. I still don't trust myself, and never will when it comes to money. The question is not if, but when, when it comes to me screwing up again. I guess what my question is this: In ohio can collection agencies put liens on "dowery rights" houses? My name is not on the loan. My name is not on the title, currently. This has me really frazzled.