her 1st call from the bank was them saying someone bought the house and he wants her out immediately (absurd under any circumstance in my opinion)...then she reminded them of the 30 day thing in her lease apparently. so they stated ok, jun 23 you are out.
its more the immediacy that is killing her. forced to give your kids to an ex who's gf doesnt feed them and treats them like blank is just not a good thing. now they will be with him FT. compounding this is her temp job is over in a month or 2 and about a month ago she already told them she wouldnt even take the perm job if they offered it to her because it's too stressful.
She is entitled to a 90 day notice, if she is paying fair market rent. She needs to send them a letter in writing, reminding them of the law.
Who is the lender?
unsure about lender but doesnt the 'month to month' part of the lease override anything else (that upon 30 day notice she must be out). i'm 99.999% sure she said she's out of the 1 yr lease and into the month to month. i do hope i'm wrong though would be nice if the 90 day law did override it though